I grew up with palm trees overhead and flip-flops on my feet, even on Christmas. After eighteen years of summer year-round, I moved twelve hours north. Fall doesn’t arrive here until mid-November, but it does arrive, and there’s a 100% chance you’ll find me gushing over hues of red and maroon, school bus yellow and bright orange. I’ll happily put on a scarf every morning, stir soup on the stove in the afternoon, and light a pumpkin or cinnamon candle in the evening.
What I’m saying is that I’m nearly thirty-years-old, but yes, I will pull the car over just to get a picture of the leaves changing and clap my hands at the first snowfall. What’s normal to others feels like magic to me, shimmering like a filter and covering even the most ordinary of moments with delight.
The thing about seasons, though, is that they always come and go. Even as I stare in wonder at the glorious colors, I know that in a matter of days or weeks, the leaves are going to fall, crinkling and floating down, only to be crunched right before snow makes its arrival.
The hours of daylight are already shrinking. What is so beautiful and vibrant will die as winter slides in, covering the colors with a chill. Spring will eventually arrive and flowers will bloom, but there’s no way around it — we have to walk through winter first.
At the close of 2018, years before the word “pandemic” was part of our regular vocabulary, I wrote “Truth to Hold onto When Everything is Changing.” In many ways, the last two years have felt like one long winter with brief glimpses of the hope of spring, the joy of summer, and the beauty of fall. Nothing is changing and everything is changing, somehow at the very same time.
As we prepare for an external winter around us while experiencing an extended internal winter within us, I’ve found myself returning to the truth that has been a constant and a comfort through the highest of highs and the lowest of lows.
God is a God of seasons, the One who keeps time and is outside of time all at the same time. He will not be rushed, and He will not be late — but He will be faithful. He is the God who comes to us and stays with us and who cannot be confined to a calendar page.
As Charles Spurgeon said, “The seasons change and you change, but the Lord abides evermore the same, and the streams of His love are as deep, as broad and as full as ever.”
This is the promise in every season: God is unchanging, and His love for us does not waver.
And this unchanging One? He could have come on any day at any time. He’s the hope of spring, the joy of summer, and the beauty of fall . . . and yet He chose the winter.
After four hundred years of silence, in the bitter cold and the dark of night, Light broke through. The Creator held by human hands that He created, swaddled in a manger. Angels proclaiming good news for all. Shepherds searching on the outskirts of town. A long-ago promise fulfilled.
Hope. Joy. Beauty. Right there, even in the winter.
As the calendar pages turn and the seasons shift, may we hold tightly to the One who doesn’t change, who walks with us through the silence of winter until new life arrives. The Promise Maker is a Promise Keeper, and He isn’t going anywhere — Emmanuel, God with us in every season.
A Blessing for the Changing of the Season:
In every high and every low, may we remember that we do not walk alone. There is grace for each moment in a Guide who makes a way and a Friend that stays beside. The seasons may change, but His love will remain the same. Instead of holding our breath in fear or dread, may we breathe in His abundant grace and breathe out trust in the Keeper of time. May we trust the unknown of the future to the One we know is authoring its pages. And with our hands open and eyes fixed, may we rest and remember: For everything there is a season, and the unchanging God will be with us in every one.
Judyc says
Thank you for this word today. I’m so grateful that as we walk through the changing seasons, in life as well as in nature, God holds us and provides and blesses beyond comprehension. Asking the Lord’s bountiful blessings, grace, and courage to keep going, to surround us all this season!
Kaitlyn Bouchillon says
Yes and amen!
Debbie says
Kaitlyn you are a beautiful writer. Such a gift to be able to speak such a lovely picture of the seasons and Gods immeasurable love for us. Your words were very meaningful and comforting- we are all so very blessed to be in his care.
Kaitlyn Bouchillon says
Thank you, Debbie! What a kind gift in this comment.
Peggy says
This was just what I needed today! Thank you for the wonderful words of encouragement.
Kaitlyn Bouchillon says
I’m glad the words met you right when you need them! Praise God.
Madeline says
Beautifully written. Such comforting words.
Brenda M. Tussell says
Thank you for sharing this story with us. Without a doubt, God does not change and He is with His children every step they take every day we live. How often we forget He is living within us. The Holy Spirit, who leads and guides us reminds us of God’s great love for us
As our seasons change, and circumstances come and go, we are reminded to keep our eyes stayed on Jesus. That’s not always easy because we live in our earth suits and we are tempted to repair what is broken in us but only God can mend our broken hearts.
Don’t get weary in well doing the Bible says, but sometimes we are just weary from day to day and from project to project and from child to child (Smile). Never give up on your hope and trust in God. Someone said God does not keep a calendar at all. He is not in a hurry but He is always on time because He is an on-time God.
Enjoy your Holiday week.
Happy Thanksgiving
Brenda
Linda Ries says
Good bless you and have a wonderful holiday
Kaitlyn Bouchillon says
He is an on-time God. Yes. I love that!
Patricia says
Hello, Kaitlyn.
It’s been a while since I visited this page, but today I just had this strong urge to grab my laptop, sit in a quiet corner, and read. I’m really glad I did.
I have a difficult time coping with the seasons changing–both literally and figuratively. I grew up in a country where it’s always in the 80s and 90s. It’s my first year here in Chicago, where winter is… brutal, and the feeling of dread is now sinking in; having to deal with the sudden drop in temperature and the melting snow soon, as well as darkness at 4 in the afternoon. I dread change so much growing up. I should be used to it, knowing that in life, change is one of the few things that is constant.
I sometimes forget that our God is a God who walks with us in these changes. I worry so much about life, and the days to come, but I want to thank you for writing such beautiful and comforting piece. Your words have reminded me that I need not to worry–that God is with us in every season, in every high and every low. Thank you so much and have a blessed Holiday weekend with family!
Pat
Kaitlyn Bouchillon says
I hear you, Patricia! Good grief, the sun setting at 4pm takes such a toll doesn’t it?! But I’m so glad that you found your way to (in)courage today and that the words showed up at just the right time. Hope to see you back here tomorrow…? 🙂
Karen Knowles says
Thank you for the comforting and encouraging words today, Kaitlyn. So uplifting!
Beth Williams says
Kaitlyn,
I, like you, grew up with palm trees, warm humid weather. We moved two states north. I am loving living among the mountains with changing seasons. Life is often like the seasons. It is full of changes. Some can be good while others are dreaded. No matter what comes your way-a job loss, death, or beautiful colors from fall that lead to snowy winters one constant remains-Jesus Christ. We should doggedly hold on Him & His promises. After all the promise maker is a promise keeper. He is the same yesterday, today & tomorrow.
Blessings 🙂