I don’t buy a new purse very often. My last purse was falling apart before my eyes, so I caved and bought myself a new one. I picked a very plain, pretty grey one. Not too big, not too small, just perfect. As soon as I got it home, I transferred only the essentials over. I didn’t want it overflowing with stuff I didn’t need. I wanted to keep it nice, light, and tidy. That way I could find what I needed when I needed to find it and quickly. Sounds simple enough, right?
Jump ahead a few months and over time, I started to dread shopping. Shopping of any kind just wore me out because there were many other important things I needed to save my energy for. So during one of my limited shopping outings, I noticed myself telling my husband my purse was just too heavy to carry. I even asked him to take it from me a few times, bless his heart. By the time we got home, the purse was dropped, and I forgot it was an issue.
Then came the day I needed something that I thought was in my purse. As I looked for the item, the more I realized how full my purse had become. How in the world did it get so full?! Without even noticing it, things had accumulated. One small thing at a time had started to pile up, making it way more heavy than it needed to be.
And isn’t that kind of like life? Maybe you can relate?
I know God loves me so, so much, and He wants to take my burdens from me. I know I can hand them over and then just savor the freedom that brings.
Cast your burden on the Lord and He will sustain you; He will never permit the righteous to be moved.
Psalm 55:22 (ESV)
I also know that many times, without even realizing what I am doing, I pick them right back up to carry myself. It can be hard to let go. It can be hard to trust God, even when we say we do.
But when things aren’t going the way we think they should or things aren’t happening as quickly as we think they should, we can all too easily go back and pick our burdens right back up, even though we know they are too much to handle.
Our human thinking makes us believe that we can just take care of it ourselves, that we somehow know better. But it’s not true! All we are doing is adding to the load on our shoulders, adding worry and concern, filling up our purse past the point of even being able to carry it.
Only when we truly trust God, lay down our burdens, and leave them with Him will we understand the peace that surpasses all understanding. There is so much out of our control, so it does us no good to carry these things. We have to be willing to hand it over and then let God handle it. If anyone can handle it, He can. Trust that He knows exactly how to deal with all the worries and cares. Trust that He knows more. Trust that He will see it through. Trust that He sees the bigger picture.
Give all your worries and cares to God, for He cares about you.
1 Peter 5:7 (NLT)
So all those things that hurt us, weigh us down, and distract us, give it to Him. Let it go because He’s got it! We don’t have to carry all that around. He wants to take it because He loves and cares for us so much.
I understand this sounds like one of those “easier said than done” things. Believe me, I get it! I know it isn’t my first reaction to cast away my burdens and most importantly, leave them with Him. But I do hope the more I do it, the more I trust, the more natural it will become, and I hope the same for you as well.
All those things that hurt us, weigh us down, and distract us, give it to Him. -Jennifer Ueckert: Click To Tweet Leave a Comment
Jennifer,
You would think I would get tired of stooping to pick up the burdens that I just laid down all the time. I’m guilty of thinking that God needs my invaluable help to work things out. I think that’s called pride?! I can relate to carrying around a “purse/heart” that’s overflowing with burdens. So thankful that God doesn’t lay guilt on top of the burdens…He just keeps inviting me to unclench my tight fists wrapped around my troubles, and to hand them over to a loving God who knows the bigger picture. God’s got this…I can let go and walk in peace. Lovely!
Blessings,
Bev xx
ps. How is your art project coming? Anxious to see what beauty you are creating?
Yes. Just yes, friend! xo As for the art project, slower than I had hoped. My health issues have set me back, but I am trying to think of it from a “in His good timing” perspective!
Jennifer,
God does know the bigger plan and if He created the earth and the intricate flowers and powerful ocean then of course He can handle my troubles. Even knowing this, it is sometimes hard to truly let Go D, let God! I wish it were easy but I’m still learning at 39!! But without the support of God, I would honestly be lost and laden. God gives me peace, Amen to our Saviour and His beautiful strong Father!!
THIS SOUNDS JUST LIKE ME. IT CAME JUST IN TIME PRAISE GOD
Grateful for His wonderful timing, Dorothy! We can practice together!
I say those same words so often and one of my friends says when she does that she just pictures it as a book snd puts it back on the shelf. Thanks for reminding us that He will carry all our burdens and what a beautiful Gift that is!!!
Oh Yes! I love that image, Sharon!
I love this too! Thank you for that analogy!
I think we will still be learning no matter what our age, Jas! Grateful He is patient with us!
This is such a struggle for me! I trust God, but I have been through such challenges over the past year that I am scared to release it all to him. It’s something I am working on and praying about. Thank you for this reminder.
You are not alone, Elizabeth! Something we all will continue to work on and pray about. I know I do!
Thank you for this message. I’m tired of letting go and picking it back up. I pray for Gods strength, wisdom and leading.
Praying right alongside you, Mildred!
It’s a risky thing, for sure, to leave things behind.
(And I suppose that’s why we’re called to live by faith… ?)
Thanks for this very practical parable we can all relate to.
Yes, exactly, Michele! All by faith!
Thank you for this word! I try to remember that we were made to be sheep, not donkeys. Donkeys carry burdens, sheep follow their Shepherd. May we lay down our burdens and always follow the Good Shepherd. It is easier said than done, but thanks for the reminder to take inventory of what we might be carrying around that we shouldn’t.
I love that thought, Judy! Sheep, not donkeys. That is the truth! Thank you for sharing that today.
Amen Jas. I am still struggling with letting go at 73! I believe it is one of the hardest lessons we learn as a Christian. Especially if you came to the Lord later in life. When I think back about all the worry I carried through life I feel sad. I thank God that he pursued me and brought me to him. Some burdens are just to heavy to carry alone. But because we are human, and may have had to always take care of things “by ourselves” we pick it up again. Father God may you always be by my side to teach me to leave it all at the cross. You are always working for us and I thank you for that. Teach me to trust you more and myself less. In Jesus name Amen
Oh amen, Sue. Amen!
Jennifer, this is a really good reminder. You spoke it very well. Thank you.
Thank you so much, Irene. That means a lot to me.
Thank you Jeniffer for your meaningful post! It is so true how we try to carry the burdens ourselves like a sack of potatoes were lugging around on our back! All He is saying is come to me let me carry it for you, my yoke is easy and my burden is light! Again like you learning to give it to Him and letting go of what we cannot control!
Such a powerful image of Him wanting to carry it for us, isn’t it? Grateful to have others learning to do this with me. Thank you, Darlene!
“Only when we truly trust God, lay down our burdens, and leave them with Him will we understand the peace that surpasses all understanding.” Yes, friend. xx
Thank you, Becky! Oh that wonderful peace… may we have that! xo
Jennifer,
Great post. We tend to give our burdens to God but then pick them back up again. My hubby is bad about that. He loses sleep worrying about stuff. I tell him “don’t worry about tomorrow for today has enough worries of its own.” Don’t worry about the future or what may or may not happen. God will be there when the tough stuff happens & it did this week. His dad had been really sick with multiple medical issues. He had just gotten out of hospital Monday night-after an hour or two at home he passed. Poor hubby was driving home from a long hard day at work to go to dad’s house then hospital. He has had two long days of funeral preparation & talking with family. Tomorrow is going to super long with funeral & a military burial. There will be a large amount of family there to support each other. When it dies down over the weekend we can rest in God & let Him help us deal with the other stuff-(cleaning out a big house, taking care of MIL). We need not lose sleep over the inevitable or what we perceive could happen. God knows all the plans & He is right there with us through it all. Don’t let burdens weigh you down give them to Almighty God who is more than able to handle them!
Blessings 🙂
Your attitude and faith is such an inspiration, Beth. Something we can certainly learn from. I am so sorry for the loss in your family. My prayers are with you!