I heard through the grapevine it’s a pretty big day in the US. I’m ready for my Facebook feed to be full of your dinner recipes and silly jokes. I never knew how much I’d miss those updates.
As a political junkie with an abiding love for this country, my heart aches like many of yours, not just for the political climate, but even more so, the divisiveness amongst fellow believers and what it represents to the world.
Amidst this, I’ve turned homeward and spent a lot of time dialoguing with our children.
I want them to remember this election for more than just chaos and discord. I want these months to count. I’ve framed our discussions around what it means to be a land of the free and home of the brave, but more than that, my desire is that they know what it means to be truly free.
We researched brave historical heroes; men and women who risked their lives for our freedom, trying to grapple with the their untold sacrifices we couldn’t begin to understand. We then searched scriptures for passages focused on freedom and living free. That’s where truth permeated.
Jesus came to “bind up the brokenhearted, to proclaim freedom for the captives and release from darkness for the prisoners — to comfort all who mourn — to bestow on them a crown of beauty instead of ashes . . . a garment of praise instead of a spirit of despair” (Isaiah 61:1-3).
Pause and let that settle in your soul like it did ours: bind, proclaim, release, comfort, bestow, praise.
Christ has done that and more. We are free solely because of Him.
I asked our girls, “How might being a home of the free and brave look like in our everyday life? How can we make God known?”
First, we declared biblical essentials: For freedom Christ has set us free.
Brave admits that we are all sinners and professes there is only one true and living God who sits on the throne. Brave confesses.
Freedom runs rampant when we understand nothing can thwart God’s plan for our lives or that of our country. Freedom confirms.
Brave is love wrapped up in our own humanity, humbly acknowledging that without the King of King and Lord of Lords, we are nothing. Brave transforms.
Freedom reminds my children there is complete peace by acknowledging that salvation does not come riding in on Air Force One. Freedom reminds.
Brave understands that we were not made for this world, and as believers, times will get more difficult. We were not promised a life of ease, yet we must hold firm to what we know to be true. Brave convicts.
Freedom sings praises to the Lord, extols His name alone, and remembers that joy comes in the morning. Freedom comforts.
Brave reaches across the table, pulls up chairs, and breaks bread with those of differing spiritual and political views. Brave heals.
Freedom reflects a church with varying nationalities and skin colors all proclaiming God’s goodness together. Freedom worships.
Brave encourages our sons to knock on doors, and extend spontaneous pick-up basketball game invitations to those from all economic backgrounds. They compete hard, and then grab burgers together. Brave is that same mom who then has a sleepover for those guys. Brave loves.
Freedom is my daughter swept away with love for her Savior knowing that her identity is found only in Him. Freedom releases.
Brave brings lies of insecurity and unworthiness to light, thereby unleashing the power of His truth to combat those lies. Brave then reaches out to the mean girl in class, even fearing rejection. Brave extends.
Freedom, bravery, grace, transformation. Oh, how my heart rejoices that He has granted us this and more!
This list barely scratches the surface of ways to manifest these in our home, and now I invite you to add to it.
On this election day, I’d love to see you fill the comments with transformative ways we can make Him known.
What might a home of the free and brave look like to you?
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Eunice says
Brave enough to admit I need a Saviour. Free enough to be able to openly choose Jesus. Brave enough to be a witness of his love and grace. Free enough to share his love and extend true grace to others. The list is endless and limitless what we can do with bravery and freedom for and with and through Christ’s love.
Cassandra says
Freedom to love anyone I choose. Brave enough to love those that are hard to love. Freedom to move about this world as a please. Brave enough to share the good news of Jesus Christ wherever I go. We all have purpose in this life; freedom to seek my purpose. Brave enough to walk into my destiny.
Connie Pilote says
Yes,yes, and amen!
Jen Schmidt @beautyandbedlam.com says
Thank you, Eunice for sharing your “free and brave” list. It’s amazing to start brainstorming these, isn’t it? You’re right, the list is endless and I’m so thankful for our Savior who made it so. 🙂
Bev @ Walking Well With God says
Jen,
Oh how I would have loved this to share with my children when they were young. I commend you on the wonderful job you are doing in giving them concrete examples of what bravery and freedom can look like in their world. Seeing all this chaos from a child’s viewpoint is confusing at best…
As for me, brave looks like daring to be vulnerable with those around me…to take off the mask and share my weakness and my utter need and dependence on God so that HE may be glorified in my weakness. I believe this kind of bravery encourages and heals and don’t we all need a good dose of that?
Wonderful post…may God be with us today and give us discernment, but give us courage – knowing that no matter what – He still reigns! May God’s name be praised…above any man or woman…
Blessings,
Bev
Jen Schmidt @beautyandbedlam.com says
Vulnerable in our complete dependence. Yes, Bev!! This!! xoxoxo
Laurie B. says
Amen and amen❤️
Karen says
Freedom to worship in the church of my choosing. Brave is knowing right from wrong and calling sin what it is. Truth only from God. There is not your truth or my truth there is only the absolute truth that comes from our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ.
Brenda says
Brave looks like standing up for people whose voice is not heard or misunderstood. Free looks like being allowed to invoke the name of Jesus to talk to those with whom we disagree about being brothers and sisters in Him.
Jen Schmidt @beautyandbedlam.com says
Yes, Brenda. I love your use of the verb “invoke.” I haven’t used that word in a while, but it’s perfect for this day and age. “Appeal as an authority.” We have that in the name of Jesus.
L says
being brave means that I trust God no matter what it (situations of life) look like. being free means that I understand that NO MATTER what happens today, God is STILL in control and even in this, He will get the glory.
Jen Schmidt @beautyandbedlam.com says
Yes, yes, NO MATTER WHAT!!! xoxox
Jessica says
Brave is stepping out of my comfort zone to share God’s love with not just my family. Freedom is realizing that God has this all, even the little things in his hands , and he is in charge of it all.
Corena Hall says
Free to love as He asks me to, brace to trust Him no matter who is the next Cimmander and chief of our armed forces. In that love to respect the person He allows to be the next President yet brave enough to pray that qualified US citizens will ALL go to the polls today and use the free will He has bestowed on us.
Michele Morin says
Brave goes behind the curtain today to cast a vote for a fallible and flawed candidate, knowing that God already knows the outcome of this election, and that our new president will be an instrument in His hands for accomplishing His purposes — which will not fail.
Jen Schmidt @beautyandbedlam.com says
Absolutely, Michele – I think we all are feeling the infallibility and flawed character of our choices more than ever, but we have that peace because we know ultimately God knows the end.
Karen says
Brave says hello first. Brave smiles first. Brave forgives first.
Jen Schmidt @beautyandbedlam.com says
Karen – I love this!!! So simple, yet three things we often forget. If we all applied these to our daily lives, just think how we could impact our world for Him.
Tricia says
Jen,
This is wonderfully put. I hope you don’t mind, may I just read your post on Friday at a Veterans Day dinner I am presenting our Scoutmaster and Advancent chair with plaques for their dedication for their service to our country and now to our Boy Scout troop. I was going to just read a nice poem but I think this might be more personal to all.
Jen Schmidt @beautyandbedlam.com says
Oh Tricia – I would be truly honored and humbled. Whether you do or not, please thank them for their service on behalf of the thousands of women that incourage represents. We can never know their sacrifice, but it does not go unnoticed or forgotten.
LYNETTE Hintermeister says
On this day of prayer and seeking the Lord’s face and His design for this country that we love and are so grateful…. your words are ENcouraging… and I am grateful to have read these this morning….. Thank You.. Blessings on your desires to Bless and Honor His Holy Name…. Prov. 3:5&6
Sarah Geringer says
Free to vote as a woman in this country. The vast majority of women throughout all time, and many in the world today, have been denied voting rights. So I cast my vote as a Christian woman today, thanking God for the freedom to do so.
Brenda says
Beautiful, Jennifer. Thank you for sharing.
I agree, the list is unending. His goodness is eternal.
Off the top of my head this afternoon…
Brave is getting out of my comfort zones to better serve. And, free is recognizing all the glory is His alone.
Beth says
What a beautiful post! Glad you are painting a larger picture for your children of “Freedom in Christ” and how specifically they can live that out. My favorite part of this post is the reminder that this world is not our home! I enjoy your blog…keep on writing!
Beth Williams says
Jen,
Your are a great mom. Teaching your children about the election and what it means to be brave and free. Brave means getting up in front of your church and doing sign language to music even though you are nervous. Doing it because it blesses the audience. Being free means worshiping when, where, how and whom I choose!
Being brave and free requires us to thank God who gives us this freedom. Then going out and using this freedom to spread the gospel of Jesus. It can be making cupcakes , cookies for less fortunate, visiting assisted living & giving residents a hug & smiles,, or going to the doctor with a family member. Just do anything and do it to the glory of God!
Blessings 🙂
Rebecca L Jones says
The freedom of any believer is in Jesus. It is the only true freedom Let’s not forget He loves the candidates.
Michele Green says
Brave is standing up for God and doing whatever He tells you to do, brave is standing up for your beliefs