Peering out my window at the beautifully falling snow and listening to the reports of area closings, my ears perk up at the latest news update: shelters are packed for the evening and the plea for more blankets is put forth. Needs are vast and many are oblivious.
Often, these days immediately following Christmas may be filled with unexpected financial stress as credit card statement arrive, budgets are re-evaluated and damages discovered, yet this is a prime time to take advantage of “After Christmas” sales to enable us to give more generously to those in need. It may be as simple as returning a few of those impulse buys that were purchased at the last minute and using that gift exchange to stock up on items that would be perfect to share with a less fortunate family.
Last winter, I shared about our family’s desire to help the homeless by putting together care packages to meet some of their basic needs. One can go a step further and gather up seasonal items like winter gloves, boots and jackets that will be slashed to pennies on the dollar after the New Year, or you can create some Blessing Baskets to keep ready year round. With a tangeable basket it encourages a raised sensitivity to those in need, not just at the holiday times, when charitable giving heightens, but all year round.
As our children age, it’s a continuous struggle for our family to counter the subtle materialism that creeps into our home. Typically, Christmas time offers an excellent litmus test to access this aspect of character development, not only in our children, but mom and dad as well. By giving generously, even when it doesn’t always go hand in hand with our present attitude, it slowly melts the selfishness that has begun to take hold.
For the past few years our family has delivered holiday meals, as well as gifts and pantry items to refugee families for Christmas. December 26 marks the day that I stock up on many Christmas items to be used in their gift basket for the following year. Without breaking the bank, I can help open up the eyes of my children to the true needs of the community and attempt to nurture an “others first” mentality which has become increasingly difficult during this season where marketers push “more, more, more.” When two of our children mentioned, “Wow, we’re giving more to him than we’re getting,” I knew it was the beginning of modeling exactly what we desire our home to encompass. It doesn’t always happen, but it’s a start.
By pairing coupons with ” loss leader” grocery store sales and giving additional food that I have accumulated purposely to share with families, I put “need vs. want” into perspective for our children. Even during our year of unemployment when we were giving more intangeable gifts of our time than those of our resources, I was able to share foods and toiletries that I “purchased” for nearly free with coupons. After Christmas, I also buy some fun gift items such as earrings, stuffed animals, and toys packaged in holiday boxes that must be marked down as well. Holiday paper products prices are also slashed and I include those in their basket when we deliver the meal. I love leaving their meals and/or cookies and pie on glass Christmas dishes they can keep and use again since I know those are items they would never spend on themselves. Again, something I look for during the After Christmas sales.
Now, please don’t get me wrong. My shopping trek produces plenty of deals for myself as well. I stock up ornaments so that I can decorate on a dime, buy flannel sheets for the kids, shop for most of my stocking stuffers for the following year, and buy 50% off Hershey’s candy, so it’s definitely not all spiritual. I guess I just love how the Lord has allowed my love for deals, couponing and frugal living to express itself in ways that can minister to others in tangeable ways.
As you scour the sales aisle this week, will you join me in adding a few things to your cart for others? It’s been wonderful to learn, even amidst my doubts, that I can never out give God. He always provides above and beyond.
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Jennifer says
Very inspiring! Thank you, Jennifer!
Kim says
Beautiful post packed with inspiring ideas! Thank you for sharing!
Beth Williams says
Jennifer,
Thank you for the reminder! I find it amazing that around holidays people think of giving to the helpless, homeless and less fortunate. After the first of the year they seem to forget about it.
Their needs don’t stop just cause the holidays are over. We need to remember them year round.
Janis says
What a great idea! I can hardly wait to put this to use.Buying stocking stuffers a year in advance–WOW! And having necessities on hand for those in need is what I truly appreciated about your post.
Happy Day After Christmas!
Janis
Holley Gerth says
Jen, I love how the distance between your heart and hands is so short–and how you help live that way too. You give us the why AND the how. Thank you!
susan says
I am like you in so many ways – love to get a bargain and being one to plan ahead for those unexpected times to give – even when finances are sparse. I love sharing, giving and brightening someone else’s day and the added benefit that my children get to see this tangible way to express “love”. Instead of preaching to them, they see us living it out, which is always the best teacher. Thanks for always sharing your secrets to getting the good deal! Blessings for a wonderful New Year!
Cathy @ Chief Family Officer says
I love how you ended, because that’s how I feel too – blessed that my love of deal-hunting allows me to bless others 🙂
Tricia @Hodgepodge says
I always love the practical. This is wonderful.
Theresa says
Wonderful idea. Hopefully people are aware of expiry dates and do not give out dated items. While doing Christmas Cheer my sister told me about sorting through boxes of food, some of which had expired in 2006. It is good to remember to treat others as one would want to be treated.
cyndi spivey says
I always want to do this but I’m so tired of shopping after Christmas. I’m going to try to get out and get some of these great buys this year.
Becky Roode says
This is a fantastic idea! Definitely one I want to implement into my holiday season. Thank you for sharing your ideas. 🙂
Laura Parker says
I LOVE these practical ideas! I love that you are already thinking of others and shopping for them, the day after Christmas! What a great example of practically serving and giving and PLANNING to do that. So often, we want to give to someone spontaneously, but because we haven’t planned for it, it becomes hard/impossible to do. I love that your whole attitude is one of giving, and that you have the foresight to plan accordingly.
Thanks for sharing . . .
Rose says
Love these Ideas! I was planning to go out anyway today!
Maybe some of those gift cards could be spent for eternal purposes!
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Living the Balanced Life says
These are some good ideas. The coldest weather has not hit yet. Buying gloves and scarves to pass out is a great idea. Along with all the other great bargains you get. My daughter is an awesome couponer and gets many great bargains that she donates to food pantries.
Thanks for reminding us!
Bernice
http://livingthebalancedlife.com/2010/christmas-2010-what-worked-what-didnt/
Mel says
Great ideas! For those couponers who like to stockpile, why not stockpile for the local shelters? Food is always needed and yet so many couponers don’t take advantage of their abilities to stock pile and give that food away! My family is going to start a new tradition called the 12 months of Christmas. Each month we will choose one item(s) from the World Vision catalog to gift to those in need. The kids love that catalog and this will really help them wrap their minds around giving and taking turns choosing what is given and we can afford something each month, even if it’s not a lot!
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Pam says
my daughter coupons and gives a lot of her freebies and great deals to homelss shelters in her area also. She is teaching her 3 year old son the benefits of giving to those who are in a tough spot and the value of a dollar as well. Those who have been given much, much is expected. I am so prod of her thoughtfulness and generous heart. Thank you for sharing your generosity and your time with others and us.
Katie @ Imperfect People says
Living frugally so you can give generously! My heartbeat! You go girl. AWESOME ideas! We are in a time on unemployment too but we can still be generous. Great words!
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