As I sit here this morning with my coffee and breakfast, I think about this day and what it means to me. It’s just an ordinary day. Not going anywhere, chores to do, etc. , but it’s how we as moms live out these “ordinary days” that make a lasting impression. My son just turned 5 – which is hard to believe! – and we are expecting another sweet little one in February, so I am not sure if it is hormones or just the fact that my little boy has reached this milestone of being “a whole hand” that has really got me to thinking about my role as a mom and my influence in our kids’ lives – daily!
Through the stresses and pressures of life at home: cleaning, teaching, being referee, cooking; the list goes on – I find myself lately more in reflection of what sort of image I portray to my family during those emotional times. Am I setting a good example? Am I letting Christ’s example of love and patience shine through during my frustration? So much to ponder! Those little eyes are watching every move, every attitude, and every response. How do I measure up?
One thing I know for sure is I must, must, must be in His word every day. I find myself losing perspective and slowly slipping into selfishness when I neglect my quiet time with the One who truly holds me together. Let’s face it moms, there have been moments where you want to open wide that front door and run screaming down the street – at least to the nearest Starbuck’s or Baskin Robbins! We all have those feelings of being overwhelmed. But with daily reading and praying and just plain being quiet and reflecting on who He is and what He wants in my life – I find those moments of madness seem to lesson little by little. Songs tend to help too. Sometimes I simply turn on the Praise and Worship music channel and let the lyrics soak in, basking in His goodness and peace.
Another necessity as a mom and wife, to me, is accountability. Surrounding yourself with a support group of sweet ladies who will hold you up before the Lord in prayer and encouragement is truly a gift. A church group, home Bible study, or just a girl’s night out is crucial to us ladies who need to know that we are not alone in our daily struggles and who need to release some of that steam. I am so thankful for friends who have been with me through thick and thin and continue to be such a sweet blessing. We wouldn’t survive without them!
So, as I drink the last drop from my mug and hear “Mom!” in the distance, I smile and think of a time when I longed to hear that simple word that means the world to me. I want to grab hold of each moment and cherish it – ordinary days and extraordinary moments. It is my desire to be like Jesus and let His light shine through me as I walk this walk of motherhood, marriage, and growing in faith. Let me encourage you to embrace the day and His tender mercies anew every morning – with a fresh desire to be like Him in your heart!
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Southern Gal says
I so needed this today. The Lord knew it as He spoke through your words and led me here. Fresh desire for a broken heart. Thank you.
Holley Gerth says
Meg, I think this is so true for everyone–kiddos or not! Thanks for pointing us back to Jesus, the extraodinary in the middle for our ordinary. So glad your words are with us today!
Charles says
Its been fun watching you mature into this beautiful woman of God. Congratulations on your post and your little one coming soon. I miss you and Matt.
Your words also apply to us Fathers too! God has been all over me lately about my communication skills with my kids, or lack of. Those frustrations of the moment will get the best of you if you don’t allow God to change your heart. I asked Ryan the other night “what can I do to be a better Father”. He said “nothing daddy”. Then I said, “what one thing would you change about me if you could”. He thought for a minute and said “well, I would change you yelling at me”. In my mind, I’m trying to get a point across when he’s not listening and obeying but to him. Its yelling. Thanks for the reminder. Oh and I can’t wait til you guys have # 3 🙂
Leah says
Beautiful post. I identify with every word you wrote and totally agree about importance of time alone with God, worship music and a small group. God is so good. With love.
Gailanne says
Two words….”Just beautiful”!
Lydia says
Beautiful post – thank you for the wonderful reminder!
Nancy says
Some of us HAVE running screaming out the door to the nearest Starbucks, Baskin Robbins, or other happy place! And, as a mom whose children are grown and almost out of the house, let me offer a hearty amen! So important to feed on the Living Bread and not just the empty calories of a macchiatto (or however you spell it). And you gotta have some girlfriends–people to walk faithfully along the way.
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